Today I read a friend’s post on Facebook. It said “We would worry a lot less about what other people think about us if we knew how seldom they do.” What a great word for me to hear! But oh so hard to remember when our feet have landed squarely on the slippery slope of insecurity.

Today I have continued to read from 2 Corinthians – you know, where Paul tells us that we are fragile clay jars holding this great treasure within! It’s like when our children were young and they came inside on a summer evening desperate for a glass jar with a lid. Outside they would run to gather as many fireflies as they could to put in their jar. Now an ordinary jar was transformed into a prized lantern as the fireflies twinkled and flitted about inside.

So, I have pondered on that truth. I carry within me a priceless treasure – the glory of Jesus – and a simple clay pot becomes a vessel of honor. What a beautiful truth.

Read: 2 Corinthians 4:17-18

As I continued to read, I paused again on these two verses. I am reminded that the troubles I experience are quite small. Not only that, they don’t last very long. The antidote to being overcome by our troubles is to fix our eyes on the horizon PAST our troubles. The beauty is that our troubles build character and bring out our best. So it isn’t wasted.

I don’t choose trouble, it just comes. And we get to decide how it will impact our lives. If we submit to the process, we will be better in the end.

So if you are in trouble, look beyond it to the horizon – the things you can’t see and know that good is coming. And you get to choose how the trouble will impact your spirit! Choose wisely!

When I was in high school, our church youth group planned an annual retreat and invited high school age students from the churches in our conference. It was a weekend event with a speaker, planned games/activities, food and fun. I loved it.

Last week in a visit to the kinesiologist, he attached a bead to the bottom of my foot with athletic tape. It is small. About 1/4 inch round. But it hurts. I cannot walk in my usual way without it digging into my foot. So, I have to adjust the way I walk. And that’s the point.

You see, he said, we do work in my appointments to correct the way my muscles work together, but then I go home and my body forgets what it learned. Especially when I am spending hours outside mowing, weeding, raking – working on my feet. So my body needs a reminder. Hence, a bead in my shoe.

Read: 2 Corinthians 12:7-9

I was reminded how often it seems like there is that one person at work, in the neighborhood, at school, in the family – who just irritates. Maybe they are there for a reason. Perhaps we forget what it means to love others well or we are tempted to live in pride or arrogance. So God put this irritant in our lives to keep us from depending on ourselves. It points us to him and our need to rely on him in our weakness.

Who or what is your irritant? What happens if you change your perspective and see it as a gift from God to keep you moving in the direction of love and selflessness? Can you learn to take pleasure in your weakness because that is when Christ’s power becomes the most obvious?

Read: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

How do I even begin to love others? A significant part of that is receiving God’s love for you. In the verses above, we read exactly how God feels about you and how he responds to you. Read it again. What part of God’s love for you do you need to experience in a special way today? Tell him and see what he does.

I wish you the best day of refreshment and renewal ever!

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Read: 1 Corinthians 13:1-3

At the end of chapter 12, Paul says, “But now let me show you a way of life that is best of all.” And he writes what it means to live a life of love. Basically, if you are all amazing in everything, but have no love, you missed it.

Honesty hour. For a long time, I was afraid to love others. I struggled knowing that I was lovable and loving others felt threatening. Like somehow I would be lost in it. If I really put you first, where would that put me? Who was looking out for me?

So I did what was easier. I developed other skills. I studied, wrote, taught, spoke – and I did it well. And I loved what I was doing and some of the time I loved the people who I interacted with. But most of the time, I was fearful, protective, suspicious and defensive. It was hard to truly love and trust while I nursed my own wounds and hurts.

But there were people in my life who were infinitely patient with me and my healing process. They encouraged me, they called out my best, they never gave up on me. They were truly the body of Christ and community to me. And for that I am so grateful. I will never be perfect, but I am so much better. I love others and am less concerned about me. I know who I am but more than that – I know WHOSE I am.

What about you? Does loving others come naturally? Or do you find it easier to perform good works, keeping people at arm’s length? There is ONE who loves you so much and died to bring you close. You don’t need to be afraid of being forgotten or overlooked or left out. You are a part, a valuable part, of God’s story.

Read: 1 Corinthians 12:18-26

This portion of scripture can be a bit puzzling at first. Maybe that is just me. I read pretty fast and I don’t read all the words. That got me into trouble yesterday. I asked my daughter if she needed me to pick Finley up at daycare. She asked her husband and then responded: “He does want you to pick her up.” I read: “He doesn’t want you to pick her up.” And I responded: “OK”. A few hours later, when I still hadn’t picked her up, and I had left my phone inside while I worked in our landscaping, I had a frantic daughter and an annoyed husband. I said I didn’t want to babysit my phone outside. He said he didn’t want to babysit me. Ha! Anyway, I digress. I should read all the words.

Here is the gist of this passage: the body has many parts. Some of them need special care so we clothe those parts and treat them with great care. The more honorable parts – like our heads for instance – don’t need special care. They can just be all showy and out for everyone to see. The stomach and intestines, on the other hand, are encased in our abdomen, covered with skin and muscle for protection. God put the body together so that the parts that need special care are in a place where they can receive it. The body works together to take care of itself. And in this way, we stay healthy and strong.

In order to care for our physical body, there are times when we abstain from certain foods. For example, my sister developed eczema. Now she had never been bothered with this before, but suddenly it appeared everywhere. In an effort to rid her body of this skin affliction, she quit eating gluten. Her head loves bread and pasta and beer, but because she cares for her whole body, she foregoes the pleasure of eating gluten. And it has produced good results in her skin.

This must be how we care for one another in the body of Christ and in our communities. We don’t all have the same function, but we are all important and provide a necessary service. Some are more showy, but may actually be less important. Others are less noticeable, but provide a part that would be immediately missed if not done.

Are you walking out your God-given role in community? Who could you encourage along the way? Is there anyone who provides a less noticeable role that needs a little boost? Let’s work together to make a healthy community that functions at its best.

Read: 1 Corinthians 12:7-11

Dave and I attended a traditional church when we were first married. By traditional, I mean the church had a Sunday School hour for both children and adults followed by a corporate service with preaching and music. The Sunday School classes for adults were also divided by gender and age.

In the fall, classes reorganized with new teachers and a mix-up of students (you were assigned a class if there were too many in one age group for a single class.) Soon after we were married I was asked to teach an adult ladies class.

I was quite young and I had never done that before, but I decided to give it a try. And I LOVED it!! I loved the preparation, the teaching, everything about it. We also had a course that taught the teachers how to teach. I loved that too. Basically, I loved learning and then passing that on to others in a way that was enjoyable, memorable, inspiring and challenging. I had found my niche!

The best way to discover what you are put together to do is to try different things. You will know almost immediately if it is the right fit. When I was getting my undergrad degree many of my classmates were double majoring in ministry and human services (social work). I talked to my adviser about it and she suggested I take Introduction to Human Services. So I did. I knew by the end of the first class I would not double major. Human Services just wasn’t my thing.

Is there something you are drawn to but aren’t sure about? Give it a try. If it sparks joy in your heart, pursue it. If it doesn’t, let it go. The best indicator for me if something fits is what it does on the inside. Does it energize and fuel me? Do I come away feeling inspired and joyful? Or does it drain me and create anxiety?

I would love to hear what you are trying and how you are stepping into new areas of responsibility!

Read: 1 Corinthians 12:4-7

Years ago Dave and I were involved in a group of young married couples at our church. One evening the group decided to visit the older folks from church and sing with them. Now, I am not a song leader. I can sing, but I don’t lead singing. But for whatever reason, the gentleman who usually led the songs asked me to do it.

I said yes. After all, maybe I am a song leader and I just don’t know it yet. How exciting! I have always wanted to be a singer. So, we begin. The first house went all right, but I was jiggly on the inside. The second house went all right, but my insides were getting more jumbly and I was having trouble thinking. By the fourth house, I could no longer remember the beginning notes of the hymns, the words were a blur on the page and I froze. I quietly turned to the gentleman who had invited me to lead and asked him to take over.

You see, I am not put together to lead singing. I love to sing, but leading is a completely different ballgame. I’m glad to know that about myself, but finding it out was a scary event.

How about you? What have you tried only to realize it wasn’t your thing? What would you like to try?

My decision to see a kinesiologist came after some friends observed me getting off a bar height chair at a restaurant to go to the ladies room. When I returned to the table, they asked me what in the world was wrong. I explained my right leg was giving me trouble, specifically my hip, and sitting for any length of time caused pain.

Read: 1 Corinthians 12:12-13

I have been seeing a kinesiologist for a little over a month. In simplest terms, his job is to observe how my body moves to identify problem areas. For instance, he identifies when one muscle is not doing it’s share and leaving the work to a different muscle not as well suited for the task. Then he teaches my muscles to each do their part.

We will get into that more tomorrow, but my question this Monday morning is this: are you fulfilling your God-given role? Are you tempted to think that since you are a foot rather than a hand, you aren’t important?

Just as our physical bodies are made up of many parts, so is the body of Christ. We don’t all play the same role or have the same abilities. We are all needed in the body!

Get ready to step up and step out! Here we go!!